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A guide to creating a romantic, curly, tousled low updo, enhanced by the deep and gentle tones of a "Soft Black" hair color for an elegant look.

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The Curly Tousled Low Updo in a Soft Black Color

The epitome of effortless elegance. A curly, tousled low updo is the perfect way to style natural curls for a formal event without sacrificing their beautiful texture.

Ocassion

Formal, Romantic, Wedding, Special Occasion

Best suit face shape

All

Best for hair type

3a - 4a

Difficulty Level

Easy

Minimum hair length

Shoulder

DIY Time at home

10-15 mins

Time in Salon

1-1.5 hours

this style is for

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The person with naturally curly or wavy hair seeking a romantic, soft, and secure hairstyle for a wedding, prom, or other special occasion.

Hairstyle Insight

The trend of "messy" or "undone" updos is a modern rebellion against the stiff, heavily sprayed formal hairstyles of the past, celebrating a more relaxed elegance.

Key Benefits

  1. Showcases natural curl pattern.

  2. A soft and romantic silhouette.

  3. Keeps hair securely off the neck.

  4. Looks elegant without being severe.

  5. Perfect for formal events.

Common Misconceptions

That all black hair color is the same.

How to ask your stylist for this style

Ask for a "romantic, tousled low updo for curly hair." For the color, request a "soft black"—a natural, off-black shade, not a harsh, artificial jet black.

Tools:
Choosing Products

A curl cream with flaxseed and shea butter; a light, flexible-hold hairspray with a sugar-based polymer.

Step by step instructions to achieve style at home

  • On dry, curly hair, loosely gather sections of curls and pin them at the nape of the neck to create an unstructured bun.


  • Leave plenty of curly tendrils out to frame the face.

Caring for your hair

A well-constructed tousled updo can last all day.


The color is a classic single shade.


A gloss every 2-3 months will maintain the soft, natural black tone.

Frequently asked questions

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What is a "soft black" color?

"Soft black" is a Level 2 hair color, a very dark brown that appears black but has a softer, more natural finish than a Level 1 jet black, which can look harsh.

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Madeleine

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 Madeleine is an expert hair stylist dedicated to the art and science of hair care. Her work empowers individuals to understand and embrace their hair's true potential, transforming routine care into a ritual of natural beauty.

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